How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 05:01
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
That's it for today.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What does it feel like to "lose your looks" to age?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Do all armies have the same rank structure?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Making more friends is a goal.
What is one thing nice you did for someone today or something they did for you?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Procrastinates a lot.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How did Kate Mulgrew feel about Jeri Ryan joining the cast of Star Trek: Voyager?
Ask yourself:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Does not procrastinate.
Who are your 5 or so favorite Quora people?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
How does the narcissist react when he realizes you no longer care?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What happened to your school bully?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Do not set goals—set systems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
U.S. budget deficit hit $316 billion in May, with annual shortfall up 14% from a year ago - CNBC
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Why do all the stupid people think Donald J. Trump is stupid?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What I need from you?
Did you swallow cum the first time you sucked a penis?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.